12.3 In and out of love - tto123

12.3 In and out of love - tto123

In and out of love

Introduction

The subject of this period is writing about breaking up and dating.

  • Form groups of three or four pupils.

Discuss the following questions in your group:

  • Did you ever break up with someone?
  • What do you think is the best way to break up?
  • What is the ‘right age’ to begin dating?
  • What is the ‘right age’ to get married?
  • Write down as many words as you can relating to dating and breaking up.
Step Activity Aim Time
  Introduction Find out what you already know. 10
Step 1

Listening
Breaking up

You can understand a recording about breaking up and answer questions about it. 15
Step 2

Reading
Dating

You can understand a text about dating and answer questions about it. 15
Step 3 Vocabulary You can understand and use the vocabulary about dating. 15
Step 4 Grammar
Live or life
You can understand and use comparatives and superlatives. 15
Step 5 Speaking
A debate about dating
You can understand and use live or life. 10
Step 6 Writing
An article about breaking up
You can write an article about breaking up. 15
Step 7 Evaluation Reflect on what you have learnt. 05
Step 8 Extra
In and out of love
Listen to the song.  

Step 1 - Listening

Breaking up
You are going to listen to George who advises Crystal how to break up with her boyfriend.

  • Listen to the conversation and do assignment 1.
  • Read the questions.
  • Listen again and do assignment 2.

Assignment 1

Copy and fill in the grid (on your own) and discuss the answers in your group.

What do you hear? (Use key words)

Information about the boyfriend

 

 

Crystal’s idea to break up

 

 

George’s advice to break up

 

 

 

Questions

  1. What is the name of Crystal’s boyfriend?
  2. Why does Crystal want to break up?
  3. What does Crystal say about her boyfriend?
  4. What does Crystal say about the relationship?
  5. How does Crystal want to break up?
  6. How long has Crystal been dating her boyfriend?
  7. Does George have a girlfriend?
  8. What advice does George give?
  9. What is important when you break up with someone?
  10. What is Crystal going to do?

Step 2 - Reading

Dating
You are going to read a text about a dating.

  • Do assignment 1
  • Do assignment 2

Assigment 1

A pick-up line is something a person says (usually a sentence) to make someone romantically interested in him or her, for example, “Hello beautiful.”
Break-up excuses are some common reasons for ending a relationship with someone.
Read the sentences. Is it a pick-up line or a break-up excuse?

  • "I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now."
  • "You deserve someone better."
  • "Are your legs tired? Because you've been running through my mind all day long."
  • "You're really great, I'm just an idiot."
  • "Excuse me I have lost my phone number. Could I borrow yours?"
  • "Hi. The voices in my head told me to come over and talk to you."
  • "I just want to be friends."
  • "What's your sign?"

Assignment 2

Read the questions, the text and make the exercise.

  • What do these words from the text mean?
    • crush (noun)
    • bachelor
    • promiscuous
    • STD
    • chivalry
  • How has dating changed since the late nineties, according to the author?
  • Does the author think dating requires more courage nowadays.
  • According to the author, why is speed dating important in China?
  • How has western society changed, morally, for the author?
  • “Chivalry is dead.” – what does this statement mean?

Dating
Dating has come a long way. Prior to the late nineties, if you had a crush on a girl and school was out, you had to search through town in hopes of physically finding her. If you had her number, you could gather your guts and phone her on her family’s telephone line, but you’d have to get through her father (or mother) just to talk to her. Nowadays, teens exchange emoticon-filled messages on cell phones and social networking sites. Online, users post flattering photos (which probably conceal their major flaws) on their profile and flirt with other users on the site. It almost seems like some kids prefer communicating their emotions behind the protection of an electronic screen to talking face to face.

Speed dating has also become more commonplace. These ultra-efficient events are arranged to give bachelors and bachelorettes the opportunity to meet as many eligible candidates as possible within a specific time. These events can be massive in countries like China, where a nationally imbalanced ratio of men to women has intensified the pressure to get married by the right age. More traditional approaches, such as posting personal ads in a newspaper’s classified section, are still around as well.

Morally speaking, Western society seems to be becoming increasingly promiscuous. One-night stands and flings are becoming commonplace. Due to the rise of STDs, contraceptive use and medical testing has become increasingly important as well.

An interesting question concerns the issue of chivalry: the custom from in the Middle Ages of treating women with honor by opening doors for them (commonly expressed by the “ladies first” mentality). Nowadays, people say chivalry is dead. That may be true, but the question remains: who killed it — men or women?

Step 3 - Vocabulary

  • Study the vocabulary. (10 minutes)
  • Do the exercise.

Vocabularylist In and out of love

Step 4 - Grammar

Life, live or lives
Do you know when to use 'live', 'lives' or 'life'?

Look at the examples. Do you recognize the different meanings?

  • Peter lives in Poland.
  • Life is short. Many people lost their lives in the war.
  • It was a live concert.

Now do the following assignment.

Step 5 - Speaking

A debate about dating
You have read a text about dating. Now you are going to debate about the subject.

  • Read the statement.
  • Divide the roles.
  • Prepare the roles using key words (2 minutes).
  • Debate.

Statement
You should be at least 18 before you can start dating.

Role A
You are going to lead the debate. Prepare the introduction of the statement and give some extra information (use the text: Dating from step 2).

Role B
Prepare arguments in favour of the statement.

Role C
Prepare arguments against the statement.

Role D
You are going to judge which arguments are the most convincing. Help the leader (role A) to prepare the introduction.

Step 6 - Writing

An article about breaking up
You’ve been asked to write an article in your school paper about breaking up.

  • Introduce the subject.
  • Think of 5 ways to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
    (You are allowed to use the Internet to get some inspiration).
  • In your conclusion write down what you think is the best way.

Ask your teacher how many words you have to use.

Step 7 - Evaluation

What have you learnt in this period?
Answer the following questions:

  • What was the easiest part of this lesson?
  • What did you already know?
  • What was the most difficult part?
  • What was new to you in this lesson?
  • What do you have to ask your teacher?

Step 8 - Extra

Armin van Buuren feat. Sharon den Adel - In And Out Of Love

You are going to listen to the song In and out of love.

  • Watch the video and read the lyrics.
  • Discuss the song.
    What do you like about this song?
    What do you dislike about the song?

 

Lyrics

See the mirror in your eyes
See the truth behind your lies
Your lies are haunting me
See the reason in your eyes
Giving answer to the why
Your eyes are haunting me!

Falling in & out of love
in love, in love
Falling in & out of love
your love, your love

See the mirror in your eyes
see the truth behind your lies
Your lies are haunting me
see the reason in your eyes
Giving answer to the why
Your eyes are haunting me!

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    Toelichting
    Deze les valt onder de arrangeerbare leerlijn van de Stercollectie voor Engels voor tweetalig onderwijs, leerjaar 1, 2 en 3. Dit is thema 12 'Relationships. Het onderwerp van deze les is: In and out of love. Deze les gaat over daten en het begin en het uitmaken van een relatie (break up). De grammaticaopdracht bespreekt de woorden live en life, en comparatives and superlatives.
    Leerniveau
    VWO 2; HAVO 1; VWO 1; HAVO 3; VWO 3; HAVO 2;
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    Engels;
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    Moeilijkheidsgraad
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    1 uur en 40 minuten
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