## Step 2 - Reading

#### Why can’t I kiss

Je gaat drie stukjes tekst uit een examen lezen.

- Lees de teksten en maak opdracht 1.
- Lees de teksten nog een keer en maak opdracht 2.

#### Opdracht 1

Deze opdracht doe je eerst alleen, en daarna bespreek je de antwoorden in je groep.

- Wie van de drie briefschrijvers krijgt het advies om zijn/haar probleem met anderen te bespreken?

#### Tekst 1 Why can’t I kiss? Q: My boyfriend finished with me the day after our first kiss. He went round telling everybody that I couldn’t kiss and some of his friends are now calling me ‘fish lips’. What did I do wrong? I don’t think I’ll ever kiss anybody again. Amy (17) A: The only thing you did wrong was get involved with this lad in the first place. He obviously used your kissing encounter as a way of backing out without making himself look stupid. He was completely insensitive to your feelings and is clearly not worth worrying over. He said what he did to try and impress his mates and as for them calling you fish lips, try to ignore it. Don’t let this boy put you off, I’m sure there are lots of lads who would like to share a snog with you.

Forbidden love Q: I am an Asian girl and my religion does not allow boyfriends. My parents are also very strict about this. I am not allowed to date anybody and they worry when I talk to boys. I have started going out with a boy and I have fallen in love with him. If my parents found out, they would be very disappointed in me and would never let me see him again. I can’t talk to anybody in my family. What can I do? Gijandra (16) A: You need to tell your parents and explain the situation. They might understand. They would be more disappointed if they found out you were lying to them. Tell them how you feel about this boy and suggest a meeting. They might like him. Chances are they won’t react as badly as you expect. If your parents truly aren’t happy about you having a boyfriend and feel you are betraying your religion you may have to decide if your relationship with this boy is really worth the hassle.

I'm so shy Q: Can you help me? I’m scared of meeting people. I’m a shy, quiet person and can’t mix very well with new people. I like reading and music and am happy with my own company. But others of my age seem to be going out and having a good time and I’m worried I’m missing out. I have a few close friends I get on well with, but am beginning to wonder if I’m normal. Shouldn’t I be going to pubs and clubs? Leo (18) A: The first thing is, don’t worry! You’re normal! Lots of people suffer from shyness, and not everybody likes to live it up in a crowded pub or noisy nightclub. It’s not always the fun others make it out to be. If you do want to go out more, why not ask your friends if you could join them next time they have a date? If they’re good friends, they wouldn’t mind and would probably welcome your company. But be positive and you may be surprised at how much you have to offer others.